3 Skills to Get a Boyfriend
3 Skills to Get a Boyfriend If you are wondering what skills to get a boyfriend you need to have, the first thing you need to do is consider what you want a boyfriend for. No, this is not a stupid question. The way you go about finding a guy might depend on what you are looking for in a relationship.
Frankly, you will do things differently if you are looking for Mr. Right than you might if you were just looking for Mr. Right Now. While I do not recommend lowering your standards ever, you may not worry too much if you are just looking for someone to hang out with rather than a potential long-term partner.
For this article, I am going to assume that you are looking for someone that may turn into someone special. The advice I am about to give you is going on that assumption. It is not that these tips cannot work for a more casual boyfriend, they can and do, it is just that you should not use anything less than these tactics if you want your relationship to go the distance.
Here you go:
- For the love of all that is good, be yourself. We all know that when we first meet someone, we put our best foot forward, and that is ok. What you absolutely do not want to do is put on a false front. It is one thing to remember to always say please and thank you. d not burp in front of Mr. Who Knows when you first meet him, but it is something else entirely to completely change the way you act.
For example, when you first meet someone do not say you like to bowl if you do not. Do not say you like martial arts movies if you do not. And do not say you hate going. museums if you really love to go. The point is that you will never let him get to know the real you if you are not acting like the real you. Be yourself.
- Don’t go overboard with the compliments. If you think he has a great smile then tell him that but do not hang on to his every word like you just met Johnny Depp. It is one thing to be attentive, it is quite another to be a cling on. Be sincere in your praise and do not overdo it. . . Do not just sit around letting him do all the talking. For one thing, if the guy is happy spending the whole night talking about himself, he may be too self-absorbed to ever be a good match for you. If he does not like to do all the talking, he will get bored if you do not contribute to the conversation. Learn how to give and take in a conversation so that you can each get to know the other.
The truth is there are no exceptional skills to get a boyfriend. If you want a relationship built on attraction, mutual interests, and trust (which is the best way to make sure it will last) then just follow the hints I have given you and you will be simply fine. Enjoy!
Regards, Coyalita
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