Self Esteem Determines Who We Are
Self Esteem Determines Who We Are self-esteem plays a great part in how well we do in our lives, which is not that obvious to us, so it can determine how successful we become. Our views of ourselves, what we think of our abilities and innate talents, affect our thought patterns. These thoughts are then turned into actions. (“Importance Of Self-Esteem – How It Leads to Success”)
The actions we take in life are especially important, as we use them to realize our dreams. If we do not reach the goals, we set for ourselves, or fulfill our dreams, it could be that we are not taking the right steps towards reaching our potential, or that you are doing something wrong. Most people do not realize that there is a link between our thoughts and actions. When you have positive thoughts, your actions are incredibly positive, and at the opposite end of the scale, if you have negative thoughts then you are likely to project that into negative actions and may become inactive. (“Importance Of Self-Esteem – How It Leads to Success”)
We all have dreams and ambitions and to fulfill those does take time. What gives you the drive and determination to succeed is high Self-Esteem. This can give you that extra push and willpower to reach your goals. (“Importance Of Self-Esteem – How It Leads to Success”) Low Self-Esteem can, therefore, be an obstacle to reaching your potential, as the difficulty you face is being able to conduct the actions necessary to help you reach your goals.
Basically, Self-Esteem is about how a person views themselves and their abilities. Feeling positive about oneself will give us high Self-Esteem; having a low opinion about oneself will in effect give us lower Self-Esteem. (“Importance Of Self-Esteem – How It Leads to Success”)
“We lower our Self-Esteem by personal criticism, which is the worst kind as this can be soul destroying.” (“Importance Of Self-Esteem – How It Leads to Success”) You should not tell yourself, “I cannot”, or “that is just so impossible” as criticizing yourself leads to self-doubt. It is better to use positive words and thoughts that instill confidence in yourself, then you can achieve anything you set your heart on. Believe in who you are!
So, what should you do to build up your Self-Esteem? Your thought patterns plant the root feelings which we then act upon, so it is important that you try to keep positive thoughts which you find beneficial. It is best to focus your attentions on your successes and your achievements, rather than your failures and losses. We all mistakes, but it is best not to dwell on them. By looking at your past and remembering what you have achieved is not part of vanity, it is acknowledging and recognizing your abilities. (“Importance Of Self-Esteem – How It Leads to Success”)
We have all accomplished something in life and by sitting down and making a list of all those achievements, it allows you to look back and remember those great moments. You can relive the hurdles and obstacles that you overcame to meet the challenges you faced; it is quite a surprise when you see that you have already achieved so much in life. At times when you have the greatest feelings of self-doubt, this list is something you can refer to remember those wonderful achievements. As you succeed in doing more things, you can add them to your list. (“Importance Of Self-Esteem – How It Leads to Success”)
“You should always remember that Self-Esteem and success in life are correlated, so work at improving the quality of your thoughts for future success.” (“How To Boost Your Self Esteem by peter mitchell – Issuu”)
Best Wishes, Coyalita
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